Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them. 18 For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.19 For your obedience is come abroad unto all men. I am glad therefore on your behalf: but yet I would have you wise unto that which is good, and simple concerning evil. 20 And the God of peace shall bruise Satan under your feet shortly. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you. Amen.” – Romans 16:17-20


This is a warning to the church:


You may think that this contradicts the second most important command to love your neighbour as yourself. But it doesn’t. Sometimes services to others demand that we avoid certain people.

In Romans 16:17, Paul writes, “Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.”

Paul pleads with his readers to do two things:

  • 1) watch out and
  • 2) avoid.

Watching out means keeping your eye on someone. Avoiding means “bending away from,” or to “fully avoid by deliberate, decisive action.” There are people in the church that you must identify and move away from.

Watching Out and Avoiding People – Isn’t That Judgmental?

Now you might be thinking, “Isn’t this being judgmental?” No, we are judgmental when we look down on someone as though we are morally superior to them. This appeal is for something different, something more like discernment. We must be able to identify dangerous people within the church without slipping into judgmentalism. God’s command to love does not mean that we embrace or ignore divisive Christians in the name of humility.

Avoiding doesn’t mean shunning or being cold or cruel. It’s deliberately keeping your distance and purposely refusing to move toward certain people. Avoiding divisive people means not being their best friend, not trusting your heart in their hands, not encouraging them into church leadership, not opening your home to them, etc. It is distancing yourself from them, moving away from association with them.

Avoiding is also not hiding. For example, if you see a divisive person in the grocery store, don’t duck behind an aisle. What will you do when they come around the corner and spot you? Act like you were inspecting an item on the lower shelf? Pretend that you didn’t know they were in the store? This is just cowardly deception. Avoidance is more valiant than this – it’s a clear-thinking commitment to watch out for and steer clear of dangerous people within the church.

How to Identify Divisive People

So, we know there is such thing as divisive people, and we know we’re supposed to watch out and avoid them – but how can we tell who these people are? In verse 18 of our text, we see they are “persons [who] do not serve our Lord Christ, but their own appetites, and by smooth talk and flattery they deceive the hearts of the naive.”

Before we go further, you need to know that this is no excuse to avoid merely difficult people. Of course, there are people you would like to deliberately and decisively avoid just because they get on your nerves or intimidate you. This watching out and avoidance is in reference to a specific breed of church folks. They’re not just difficult – they’re dangerous.

Also, before examining the character of these divisive people, remember that this is not a witch hunt. Don’t comb your church directory labelling people with a big red “D” based on these observations. This is about discernment. Meditate on this passage so that it becomes part of the way you think about the church and the people around you, and so that you can be wise in your dealings with others, watching out for the following characteristics:

Divisive People Are Divisive (“shockers”)

The first and obvious characteristic of divisive people is their divisiveness. This means that they often cause people to stand apart from one another. Where there are interpersonal problems within the church, these people are often at the roots.

Remember that divisions require at least two or more people and not everyone involved in a division is a divisive person. But if over the years, a common denominator emerges in many such problems, he or she is likely a divisive person who needs to be avoided. We’re talking here about “the usual suspects” involved in church disputes.

Divisive People Create Doctrinal Obstacles

Honest questions about established doctrines are good. But people who constantly question such doctrines without ever moving beyond them may be divisive. When Paul says, “Watch out for those who — create obstacles contrary to the doctrine that you have been taught,” he is referring to those who regularly derail the Christians beside them with doctrinal traps and puzzles. These are the people that teachers hate to see walk into the classroom. These people love to show their knowledge and creativity with Scripture, but not to encourage others to move forward as Christians. They seem to have more insight into scripture than fruitfulness in their lives.

There are some ministers and leaders who believe that they are the only one that can lead a flock. They sometimes suppress the very members that they lead. These same members sit in the same seat and dress the same every service hour. Look out for them who constantly begin to check up on you because there might be a particular motive.

The fact is, these people “do not serve our Lord Christ, but their own appetites.” They’re involved enough in church life to cause division and mentally engaged enough to trip everyone else up because they don’t really care about Jesus – they care about satisfying their own desires. They’re hungry, but not for righteousness.

Divisive People Have Manipulative Speech

Divisive people are often characterized by smooth talk and flattery. Why is ice cream so dangerous? Because it goes down smooth! The things divisive people say will taste great but will have disastrous after-effects. Be careful with those you engage, there are very dangerous side-effects from their conversations. Before you know it your home is divided, your children have gone astray and you are in the divorced courts. Be careful.

It isn’t usually brutish and abrasive ones, who are truly dangerous in the church. They are obviously messed up. It’s the smooth-talking flatterers who sound good and make you feel good about yourself. You’ll want to listen to them and hear their ideas.

  • But you’ve got to watch out for those whose words are smoother than their lives,
  • Those who can speak well of you to your face and ill of you behind your back.

They don’t care about the truth so much as the effect they can produce in you with their words. They are manipulative. You will find lots of then on social media making confusion under “fake names”, but they will be exposed and the truth will come out sooner or later. Yet, when they meet you they will talk about Jesus and bring down God from heaven and I warn you to be very careful. Take the warning that I am giving you today. It is later than we can ever think.

The Danger of Divisive People

Why is this so dangerous? Because it will destroy the naive and ruin lives. Note that Paul says divisive people “deceive the hearts of the naive.” They don’t just deceive the naive – they deceive their hearts. This is the innermost part, the very identity. Divisive people do not only corrupt vulnerable Christians, but they also reprogram their hearts to falseness. I want you to look closely at this dangerous trend moving around in the Church, both men and women. They are on a mission to kill and destroy, but I have good news for you that Jesus came to give life in abundance. Hallelujah, and I am inviting you to get on board if you are not there already?

This was Satan’s approach in the Garden of Eden. Way back when, he slithered up to naive Eve in the form of a serpent. Now he slithers up to naive Christians in the form of divisive church people. Make no mistake: divisiveness, doctrinal obstacles, manipulative speech – these things are evil.

After all, that’s what Paul calls them in Romans Chapter 16 and verse 19: For your obedience is come abroad unto all men. I am glad therefore on your behalf: but yet I would have you wise unto that which is good, and simple concerning evil.

We must bend away from such people because they are in league with Satan himself and will destroy the unsuspecting in our church. You cannot say Paul didn’t warn you and neither can you walk away and say you were not warned by this writer. I have done my best to be informative and to encourage you to look for the things that you have missed.

We’re All Guilty of Being Divisive

Now, before we hike up too high on our horse at all this, let’s think plainly about our own sins here. I suspect that many (if not all) of us have been involved in some of these things. At one point, we’ve all probably made a show of our biblical knowledge and creativity – not to serve Jesus, but our own appetites for attention. We’ve spoken untrue praise to someone’s face to avoid social awkwardness. And I’m sure we’ve all gossiped, exaggerated or complained about someone to others, setting our listeners against them.

This is the time for us to make amends before we get to the end of this message. Let us look into our spirit and see where we are and the change we can make to move forward in these uncertain times.

We must beware that these things are no mere trifles. They are the subtle evils of Satan slithering into our lives and church. We must avoid those who are pros at these things and we must pursue unity, doctrinal helpfulness and honest speech. There are some who learn how to lie and speak untruth and they have become very scandalous and deceitful in every corner. They have graduated in lying and spreading rumours and scandals. They have one thing in mind and that is to destroy the saints of God and moreso, those that are trying to walk in the path of righteous.

The Promise

Now, at the end of all this in verse 20, there is a promise to us: And the God of peace shall bruise Satan under your feet shortly. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you. Amen.

In all these things we must never despair. God will soon crush Satan – the one ultimately behind church divisiveness – under our feet. Therefore, we have much to rejoice in and every reason for confidence as we move forward together as a church.

Discussion Starters

  1. How can you “watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles” without being paranoid or judgmental?
  2. Without naming names, do you feel that we have any such people involved in your church?
  3. What are some practical ways we can avoid such people? What if they are family members, even spouses?
  4. Looking at the passage as a whole, what “appetites” might divisive people be serving?
  5. What is the difference between smooth talk/flattery and just trying to be kind with our words?
  6. Why does Paul include the promise of verse 19 in this passage? What does this have to do with the rest of the paragraph?
  7. If you suspect that you are a divisive person, what should you do? What steps can a divisive person take to respond to this passage?
  8. This passage is written to the church at large. Do church leaders have a different responsibility toward divisive people than the laity? What other scriptures can shed light on this question?

Take some time to pray for your church., your brothers and sisters and lastly lay on the altar of Grace and Mercy and ask God to have favour on you. That He will purpose these things in your life for His honour and glory.

Author: Godfrey Gregg

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